Guide

Managing medicines for someone you care for

Practical, safe ways to help someone take the right medicines at the right times, while respecting their choices.

KindredAge Editorial
Editorial team
Updated 2026-10-11 · 5 min read

Keep one up-to-date list

The National Institute on Aging says the doctor needs to know about all medicines, including over-the-counter drugs, vitamins, supplements and eye drops. Make a list, or bring everything to each visit, and make sure the doctor has the pharmacy’s phone number.

Ask for a medication review

The NHS says that if the person you care for takes several medicines, their GP surgery may offer a structured medication review with a pharmacist. Try to go with them.

Help with remembering

  • Link doses to daily routines such as meals or bedtime (NIA).
  • Use a weekly pill box, a chart, timers or a reminder app (NIA).
  • Keep medicines in one place, ideally a locked cupboard or drawer (NHS).
  • Ask the pharmacist if pills could come in a form that is easier to take, if swallowing is hard (NHS).

The NHS is clear: never give medicine to someone without their consent or try to force them. If they do not want to take it, talk to their GP or pharmacist. They also have a right to confidentiality about their health.

Sources

  1. NHS. Medicines: tips for carers (checked 2026-10-11)
  2. National Institute on Aging (NIA). Taking medicines safely as you age (checked 2026-10-11)
  3. National Institute on Aging (NIA). What do I need to tell the doctor? (checked 2026-10-11)
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